complete tonal 180 from last night, but you should be the coolest person you know. easier said then done in some cases to "just be yourself 😇" but there is no one who will 100% match the energy you have. indulging in the activities or topics that you enjoy expresses your passion. instead of trying so hard to be interesting, be more interested in things you're drawn to, whether it's a single niche or multiple hobbies, projects, etc.
yk despite not caring for labels, i genuinely wonder what ppl perceive me as sometimes. like do ppl see me as cis? as a flavor of trans/nb? i must know.